{"id":2612,"date":"2026-06-27T22:00:11","date_gmt":"2026-06-28T03:00:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/?p=2612"},"modified":"2026-06-27T22:00:11","modified_gmt":"2026-06-28T03:00:11","slug":"worst-thing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/2026\/06\/27\/worst-thing","title":{"rendered":"The Worst Thing in the World"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Is this what you wanted?<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"\/images\/2026\/discord2.png\" title=\"Discord's February announcement about user age verification\" class=\"ghost\"\/><\/p>\n<p>When you decided there was no greater nightmare than&#8230; young people existing in public?<\/p>\n<p>Or that they must be banned from anything that &#8220;affects their developing brains&#8221;?<\/p>\n<p>Such that when someone means to do harm to young people in a place, your conclusion is that young people must be removed from the place, rather than removing those who would do them harm.<\/p>\n<p>So we all must lose online anonymity (as much as we have it anymore with data mining) lest one of those anonymous names be someone &#8220;underage&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>Because our society is so brain-rotted from anti-youth bigotry that someone can be taken seriously saying something like &#8220;social media is as bad for youth as smoking or alcohol&#8221; despite how incredibly fucking stupid that sounds.<\/p>\n<p>We&#8217;re being inundated with ads for &#8220;Instagram Teen Accounts&#8221; about all the ways the social media sites of Mark Zuckerberg, who kisses the asses of the Orange Thing and others who spent a lot of time on Jeffrey Epstein&#8217;s island, are pretending they truly care about the well-being of youth by empowering parents to restrict the online activities of their chattel- er, I mean, nearly-adult offspring.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/2018\/01\/02\/stalker-app\" title=\"Stalker App\" class=\"fort\">Parental control tools<\/a> get promoted without a shred of acknowledgement that these things don&#8217;t actually know the relationship of the user to the &#8220;child&#8221; and thus get used all the time by abusive intimate partners. I&#8217;ve come to realize this is a feature rather than a bug.<\/p>\n<p>Protecting kids is never the point. It&#8217;s a smokescreen, a flimsy excuse. A distraction.<\/p>\n<p>In a country where kids are suffering actual severe trauma while <a href=\"https:\/\/www.propublica.org\/article\/ice-dilley-children-letters\" title=\"ProPublica: Letters from the Children Detained at ICE\u2019s Dilley Facility\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"post\">locked up in ICE detention camps<\/a>, the point is to pretend the real trauma is being suffered by the kids who are learning about it while scrolling through TikTok.<\/p>\n<p>In a country where trans kids are persecuted more and more by the day, when their only escape from a family that doesn&#8217;t accept them just might be the affirming friends they find online, even those who fancy themselves supporters of LGBTQ+ youth still champion half-baked attempts of restricting their access to that lifeline, perhaps buying into those <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/2025\/05\/04\/pride-and-groom\" title=\"Pride and Groom\" class=\"fort\">affirming friends being groomers<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>In a country that recently bombed over a hundred Iranian schoolgirls and has been supplying the weapons resulting in Gaza having the largest cohort of child amputees in our time, we&#8217;re so convinced that consuming media that&#8217;s not &#8220;age appropriate&#8221; is so uniquely harmful to those under 18 that mountains must be moved to keep it from happening.<\/p>\n<p>Or maybe the mountain moving is the point.<\/p>\n<p>This does give Discord and others free rein to acquire (and sell) personal details about users they have no good reason to have. You&#8217;re forced to comply if you want to continue using your apps. Maybe you&#8217;ll grit your teeth and bear it. Maybe you&#8217;ll quit altogether, although the more sites and apps and countries implement <a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthrights.org\/the-harms-of-social-media-restrictions-and-bans-for-minors\/\" title=\"NYRA: The Harms of Social Media Restrictions and Bans for Minors\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"post\">such social media age checks and bans<\/a>, the less you&#8217;ll be able to opt out. You&#8217;ll hate it, but underneath it all, you&#8217;ll decide it must be worth it. You made it happen, after all. When you decided that a 15-year-old using a social media site, or even in general just engaging with and taking up space in the wider society, was the worst thing in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it&#8217;s time to ask why you believe that. So what if young people use &#8220;screens&#8221; a lot? That&#8217;s just the age we live in. Do you really buy all the concerns about brain development or age inappropriateness? Even if we&#8217;re to pretend for the moment those concerns are valid, well, so what? Isn&#8217;t that their own business, nothing to do with you? And, in your heart of hearts, is that what you&#8217;re really worried about?<\/p>\n<p>Or are you so profoundly offended that you must share the world with those younger than you that you latch onto any remotely plausible excuse to reduce that sharing?<\/p>\n<p>Put it this way. Those bombed kids in Tehran and Gaza? Those isolated trans kids? They aren&#8217;t sharing the world with you anymore, are they?<\/p>\n<p>And those visitors to Epstein&#8217;s island whose asses Mark Zuckerberg likes to kiss? They&#8217;re still walking around free and part of the wider society, aren&#8217;t they?<\/p>\n<p>None of this is to protect kids. It&#8217;s to keep them silent and ignorant. Exactly what those who would prey on them want.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Is this what you wanted? When you decided there was no greater nightmare than&#8230; young people existing in public? Or that they must be banned from anything that &#8220;affects their developing brains&#8221;? Such that when someone means to do harm to young people in a place, your conclusion is that young people must be removed &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/2026\/06\/27\/worst-thing\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;The Worst Thing in the World&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25,11,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2612","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-teh-interwebs","category-what-the-hell","category-youth-rights"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2612","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2612"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2612\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2619,"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2612\/revisions\/2619"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2612"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2612"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.eightminefortress.com\/surewhynot\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2612"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}